Controlling leaks and other urinary problems

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Leaks and sudden trips to the washroom can affect how confident you feel in public or at home. After some prostate cancer treatments, many men experience leaking of urine (pee) immediately after or in the months following treatment.

Learn how to take control
of urinary problems

To take charge, here are steps you can take:

Try products designed
to control leaking

Leaks can happen at any time and catch you off guard. For some men, leaks happen more in the evening than during the day. This is because our muscles get weaker as we get tired later in the day. Just like your other muscles, the muscles controlling your urine (pee) get tired too.

To keep you comfortable and protected no matter what time of day, 
you might want to try
some incontinence products.

Your options may include:

  • pads that sit inside your underwear.

  • underwear briefs that slide on and absorb leaks easily - many men say these feel just like regular underwear

Where can I buy them?

  • Ask at your local pharmacy or look in the health product aisles of supermarkets and retailers to find the products to try. It’s important to find what works for you, and then you can stock up.

  • If you’re worried about buying them in person, check online for good options that may be delivered to your door.

  • If you’re experiencing financial difficulty and cannot purchase the products you need, you can look for a supplier of donated products near you from the Directory of US Diaper Banks.

What kind should I get?

There are a variety of options for men depending on where you live. Your doctor or nurse can also recommend some good options that may be cheap and convenient.

Tip — Some men prefer to use women’s pads. Women’s pads are often very absorbent and designed to be comfortable and undetectable.

These products are meant to keep you confident and comfortable, day or night, so you can continue to do the things you love without slowing down.

For more on finding the most suitable continence product for you, visit Continence Central or use this Product Finder tool.

Pelvic floor muscles
exercises (Kegels)

Pelvic floor muscle exercises (Kegels) help strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and reduce urine leakage. Speak to your doctor before starting Kegels to make sure they're safe for you.

Maintain a
healthy lifestyle

Eat plenty of whole grains, beans, lentils, nuts, seeds, fruits and vegetables

Constipation can make your leakage worse by adding pressure against your bladder. Make sure you’re getting plenty of fiber to get your bowels moving.

Avoid alcohol

Drinking alcohol can make urinary problems worse. While you’re getting things under control, aim to cut back on alcohol as much as possible. Reducing the amount you drink, or not drinking at all, can help improve your symptoms.

Drink more fluids

When you don’t drink enough water and fluids, your urine (pee) becomes darker and more concentrated. This can irritate your bladder wall and cause leaks. Make sure you stay hydrated, avoiding any type of alcohol and caffeine, to improve your bladder control and bowel function. You can start by sipping fluids slowly throughout the day, versus drinking large amounts at once.

Reduce or quit smoking

Quitting smoking can improve your health all around. Talk to your doctor about options to help you stop smoking or gradually cut back.

Reduce caffeine

Some men will find it helpful to reduce caffeine, as caffeine can irritate the bladder and affect how well it works. Food and drinks with caffeine include:

• chocolate

• coffee

• tea

• fizzy drinks, such as Coca Cola & Pepsi

• energy drinks

More about steps to take for a healthy lifestyle

Safe exercise

In the early stages of recovery, you may need to adjust your exercise routine. High impact exercise can increase leakage. If your routine includes heavy strength training (using weights), reduce your weights. Speak to your doctor or nurse about a suitable exercise program for you.

Know your medications

Some medications can affect your urinary health. Talk to your doctor or pharmacist to ask any questions, and understand what you’re taking.

Avoid foods that irritate your bladder

Some foods can also irritate your bladder. These include spicy foods, some acidic citrus foods such as oranges and grapefruit, fruit juices, and tomato-based foods. You can try using a food diary to track how these foods might affect you. Eliminate these foods for about a week and re-introduce them back, one by one, to see if there is any change.

Talk to your doctor,
nurse, or care team

If your leaking is heavy and preventing you from doing your usual daily activities, speak to your doctor or a continence nurse specialist about getting help.

Look for continence services
and resources online

Continence Central is a good place to start, and has information on choosing and buying products, as well as on reimbursement and insurance. Additional information on incontinence and support tools can be found on the National Association for Continence and the Simon Foundation for Continence.

Know where to
find a bathroom

To help ease your mind and to make sure you know where to find a bathroom when you’re out, there are a number of smartphone apps you can use to find the public bathroom nearest you.

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